The Apostle Paul's point: Genuine love means dealing with each others messiness not ignoring it!

"Bear (endure, carry) one another’s burdens and troublesome moral faults, and in this way fulfill... observe perfectly the law of Christ"

"When you talk, do not say harmful things, but say what people need—words that will help others become stronger."Eph. 4:29 NCV

"It is absolutely clear that God has called you to a free life. Just make sure that you don’t use this freedom as an excuse to do whatever you want to do and destroy your freedom. Rather, use your freedom to serve one another in love; that’s how freedom grows." - Gal. 5:13 MSG